Expert on family issues including relationships, parenting and handling teenagers. Extensive experience gained as a Family Lives Call Facilitator.
SERVICES
Clearly men and women have different thinking and processing styles otherwise you wouldn't be here on my page in the first place.
So if either gender were to ask me "What do I do?" In a nutshell....
For women : I help you get your Mojo back.
For men: I help you save money
I help people who are experiencing family or relationship breakdown, to understand their situation better.
With understanding you become calm, with calmness you gain clarity and with clarity comes the SOLUTION.
As clear and simple as that.
So you have 2 paths to consider. Lift yourself up and live your life to the full or choose not to.
Parent Coaching
A Parent Coach closes the gap between where a parent is and where a parent wants to be.
A Coach will work with a mum or dad to identify clear goals and develop effective strategies to achieve them. At coaching sessions, most parents present problems and challenges. The majority of mums and dads will seek the services of a Coach because they have a specific parenting problem or problems that they want to solve - PESTs.
All parents have PESTs:
- Problems affecting many parents
- Energy sinks to an all time low when parents think about them
- Stress levels hit an all time high when parents think about them
- Time - it is never the right time to deal with the problem
Parents can't wave a magic wand and change their teenager... but they can change the way they respond to their teenager and this will bring about significant improvements.
Three key stages to Parent Coaching
- Identify the specific problem or challenge
- Identify the solution
- Identify the actions the parents can take to resolve the problems
Youth Coaching
There are a number of challenges being faced by young people in today's society.
These revolve around choices, transition to adulthood, education and those questions regarding what they do after GCSE's. Do they go onto study AS and if so, in what? Perhaps college would be better to take a BTEC, vocational or equivalent qualification? Or maybe, as two 15-year olds recently said, "Yippee, only one year left at school". So perhaps they need to consider what work they will look for? For some there are no choices, their parents decided when they were born what they would do regardless of what the young people would like to do.
Youth Coaching is aimed at exploring the above challenges through the use of coaching and coaching tools in order to support young people in a positive and productive way. Parents mean well but regretably they are very often too close to the challenge and are the last resort for youngsters to turn to. Coaching will also help to explore and identify the different emotions young people feel particularly during times of transition. More young people are attracted to coaching because they both expect and enjoy the opportunity of putting their ideas and opinions forward, gaining clarity and taking responsibility for themselves.
The challenges that your youngster is facing may be:
- crime
- binge drinking
- assult and violence
- drugs
- peer pressure
- mental health challenges
- depression
- physical, mental and sexual
- abuse
- fitting in
- achieving a balance between school and their social life
- having a single parent
How will it help?
Bringing coaching to young people is like a breath of fresh air because its core skills are:
- Questioning to explore what the problem or challenge really is.
- Listening to understand.
- Time and space for the individual to think.
- An opportunity for options to be explored.
- Allowing choices to be selected.
The Coaching Academy
The Diploma programme advocated by The Coaching Academy (TCA) is the most experiential and comprehensive coach training programme available today.
Accreditation
Coaching is a skill which does not involve delving into people's past, nor does it involve giving advice or making suggestions. Therefore, the chances of coaching causing harm are very slim although this is no excuse for bad coaching. This is why high quality, substantive and accredited training courses for people entering the profession are extremely important. TCA has 6 external, professional and academic endorsements and accreditations.
These currently are:
- The Open College Network (OCN)
- Association for NLP (ANLP)
- The Open and Distance Learning Quality Council (ODLQC)
- Education Development International plc (EDI)
- The Institute of Leadership and Management
- CPD Certification Service
- Roshni Shah is a qualified Performance Coach (MERIT).
- Continuing Professional Development
- March 2011 - Level 2 LSCB Multi-Agency Safeguarding Training Course
Testimonials
I have had 6 one hour coaching sessions over the phone with Roshni and each time I found them extremely useful in helping me move forward and take action to achieve my personal goals. We covered topics around confidence, relationships, movtivation and values.
Roshni has always maintained a very professional approach helping me draw out new options and identify new courses of action. She keeps a good structure to sessions,, is very focused and motivational and has given her full commitment to my progress. She shows a genuine interest in the issues being discussed and is good at establishing a rapport from the start, which creates a very open and constructive environment to explore challenging issues.
I feel fortunate to have benefited from sessions with her and have absolute confidence she will make a great coach.
N Brett, London June 2011
I've started coaching sessions with Roshni at what was probably the most difficult time of my life, certainly most complicated and confusing.
Thanks to Roshni's coaching I was able to clarify and sort out my thoughts and identify my goals.
Our coaching sessions have helped me to see my problems from a different perspective. So what I thought was important and what I was concentrating on fixing, whas not what was holding me back.
Coaching helped me to focus on the future and find and make the first steps out of the present.
I was able to leave my problems in the past and my future became exciting !
April 2011
I am a General Practitioner and I've been working with Roshni since 2011. She is my 13 year old son's personal coach and mine. I find her very approachable and knowledgeable. She has managed in a short period of time to achieve great results and I only wish I had started to work with her much earlier. I only have words of praise for her work and of course I will highly recommend her. July 2011Z
QUALIFICATION DETAILS
B.Sc (Hons)
Diploma in Personal Performance Coaching (MERIT)
Diploma in Youth Impact Coaching (DISTINCTION)
Service Categories
Life Coaching
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